Buying your woman some lingerie can be quite an event if you don't know how to do it. I mean, which man wants people to see him checking out different thongs? Buying lingerie for your woman might seem intimidating but it really doesn't have to be. You know how sexy it will be when you see your woman putting on that sexy number you got for her, right? Well, here's how to do it right;
FOCUS ON WHAT YOU LIKE IF YOU CAN’T FIGURE OUT HER STYLE
Almost every woman feels uncomfortable with some part of her body (Instagram and Snapchat are the major culprit here), while they are some who are way too self-conscious to even think about a revealing lingerie. There's a chance that you might have a far higher opinion of your woman's body than she does.
Therefore, it is recommended that you focus your search on the type of lingerie you want to see her in. Trying to figure out her style is one thing that can drive you nuts, and make you end up buying what she doesn’t like. Instead of trying to figure out her style, look for something you think will make her look damn hot. Is her butt your favorite part? Then buy her something that will show plenty of her cheeks. The legs drives you crazy? A pair of thigh-highs that has got a seam up the back will do. When you give her the gift, you can explain to her your reasons for buying what you bought. If she hears something like, "I thought your arse is going to look perfect in this", she just might not care about her personal style anymore.
BUT STILL, AVOID HER INSECURITIES
Now, this is where it gets a little trickier. If there's a part of her body she's greatly unpleased with, somewhere she doesn't want to show off to the world -for some reasons best known to her- buying a lingerie that will show that part, because that's the part you love most, might make her feel upset or pressured.
If she's really self-conscious about that part of her body that you love, you can have yourself do some recon first. Try complimenting her about that body part and notice her response to the compliment. A lot of women are not too good with taking compliments, but if she does a little bit of giggling, and goes like "stop staring at me like that",or shows some cute embarrassment,that’s a green light to purchasing the lingerie. But should she become irritated or annoyed, and says something like "my breasts are too small, I don't like them at all, I've always hated them", considering buying her a lingerie that will display or highlight that body part isn’t a good idea.
GET THE RIGHT SIZE
One of the golden rules of lingerie buying: don't buy it if you are not sure it's the correct size. Buying her something that is bigger than she is might make her feel insulted; too small, and she'll feel embarrassed, or worse, get stuck in the clothing. Either way, you need to make your researches first before buying her some lingerie, else she won't be able to wear whatever it is you buy for her.
You can check out her bra tags, tags on dresses, shirts, underwear in order to determine her size. Different brands come with different styles and sizes, so make sure you check a lot of her items and note every size you come across. I mean write them down, so you won't forget.
ONLINE SHOPPING IS THE BEST
Yes, in situations like this, especially if you are a shy person, you wouldn't want your afternoon to be spent avoiding eye contact and creeping around the edges of a lingerie store; so just do your shopping online. Simple!
Note that physical lingerie stores welcome respectful and polite men. Sales associates in lingerie stores are usually ready to help, and don't be afraid to ask them for help. They have dealt with uncomfortable interactions than you trying to explain what exactly you are looking for. As a matter of fact, they can help you find something unique and special.